Thursday, May 14, 2009

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Proof by 9? The detachment


What is the common denominator of all human beings? They all seek happiness .
We all want to be happy and avoid suffering.
How we try to find happiness?

  • by accumulating material goods (have a nice car, nice house ...) or the sensual pleasures (love, food or drugs ...): this is an endless quest for the pleasure caused by the acquisition of property is short and we want more quickly or something. What a pain ...
  • in work being accomplished in the By cultivating love family, friends and . It is already higher: and that's going to happen when you lose them? Or when disagreements arise? We are suffering ...


How long is the life of a human being where he is happiest? Where he "swam in bliss? : when he experiences the love (I distinguish the feeling of love of physical love) being in love, it is thought only one person, having filled his being and it is a feeling far above all others. Similarly, experience the love for a child, a parent ... are unforgettable moments of sublime happiness, and even the only ones we have for most of us experienced.


But does one experienced by during these times? We forget to think only one other being, for which we feel a deep affection.


And that's the key: if you want to be happy, you just have to think a little more to others and a little less to your little person to treat your fellow human beings as they too seek happiness , longing for happiness and building the wrong way they have to seek this happiness, their suffering. We 're a bit like butterflies searching for the sun and huddled around vulgar electric lamps, we burn the wings.
You can retort that some suffering is not the act of deviance in our search for happiness (genetic diseases, accidents, death of a loved one, natural disaster ...). But again, our behavior is essential:

  • first suffering has little, what matters most is how we live . Everything goes through our brain. Can significantly reduce pain by the way we apprehend, for example. In addition, you can also choose to search the good and well that can be drawn from a situation of suffering by analyzing the situation objectively, rather than confront it.
  • then, and again, things do not they go better if we forget a little bit and we think of the suffering of those around us. A person who helps others in distress rather forget his troubles. And she draws her the recognition of others and sometimes their help in return.


We know the love for ourselves and our families. But the key to happiness is to extend the target of our love for all living things :

  • humans, considering they are like us in search of happiness but they do it badly, causing a feeling of compassion towards them and eliminates any feelings vis-à-vis those who are hurt. Those are more unfortunate than you and hurt themselves. Yet compassion is the first step towards love
  • other living beings, simply by considering that life is sacred and deserve our love

Monday, February 2, 2009

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According to Buddhists, it is clear that everyone aspires to happiness and the absence of suffering, the best way to do that is not taken leave of suffering: detach himself from his bad habits, his desires, his evil impulses, his little ego, emotions ... Think ahead and try to detach yourself from all this, you will give much less effect for those who want to make you suffer

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Basketball Court Birthday Cake

Breathing

Breathing is a harmless gesture and automatic (fortunately!). And yet, when we regulate our breathing, which brings peace and balance!

Here's an exercise I'm trying to achieve as soon as a difficulty, a maddening situation, a disappointment ... arise, or when I just want to feel good, m'équilibrer ... ie every morning sunrise:

  • breathe in slowly through your nose, imagining that the inspired air is beneficial and into our lungs. Blocking a little breath and imagine that the air diffuses slowly in our bodies, including spreading its benefits.
  • Exhale vigorously through the mouth, imagining that it expels the bad in us toxins, doubts, fears ...


Just try this simple exercise, and I hope it will do you much good only to me ...!

And in the morning it gives a different color to your day. I think that this state of inner peace should be inherent in everything we do

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Blueprints For Sandrail

What does that mean: LOVE?

This is complicated qua ca ... or AC is simplified, it depends!
Love, everybody thinks they know what it is, but do you really?

I distinguish the people he is "easy" to love and those whom he is more "difficult" to love:


Those he is "easy" to love:

  • Our kids: we consider it natural to love our children but we really love them when we yield to their whims (or worse by weakness, for fear of their reaction or a " psychological trauma ") we let them do everything, including us disrespect or disrespectful to others (children, adults ...), we let them drenched young brain images more or less sordid watching TV for hours ...? LOVE our children is give them the limits they need is to think about their interest before thinking about our (when you agree to buy a cake or candy superfluous to the supermarket, do you think the interest of your child, who will not fail you call another the next time and think that in life, everything can be easily-which is sure to cause serious setbacks later- or you give in to it leaves you quiet?). Where appropriate, not only do you not play your role as a parent, who must learn that we can have everything and you let bullied.


  • Our friends: we chose them because we have some affinity. But we behave really friends with them? Are we there when they need us? They give us good advice and we pride ourselves reflected or only their egos when we compliment? we respect their differences, or do we spend our time criticizing them? LOVE our friends is to accept their differences, do not try and help them when need us


  • Our spouse : we also selected ... but when you live with someone, we share the good and we discover the worst ... if we fix our attention on this last point, then things may go wrong. LOVE spouse's daily BUILD union in its innovative thinking to please him, thinking of the couple's interest before thinking about yourself ...

People it is less easy to love:


We know a lot and come across new ones every day. About them, I would say they are the product of various factors (genetics, education, culture ...) it must tolerate and respect . If we find an inner peace each morning is that we approach each equipped with this inner peace, then judgments, intolerance, annoyances fade: we are a channel of love that we flood the person, and we don ' expect nothing from her, so nothing irritates us in it. She thinks we hurt, we think: it is much more unhappy than me wanting to do harm; In each we see the small flame of love that we all carry.

Friday, January 2, 2009

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Put first things first in his life

I was told a story that I you transcribe:
A man must make a presentation in 20 minutes to students, policy makers in the organization of its time. Rightly judging that very little time to make this presentation, he arrives on stage with a large glass beaker and a bag of stones. He puts the vase on a table, and empty the contents of his bag: they are stones of various diameters.
Without saying a word, it is larger at the bottom of the vase, then those of a smaller diameter and continues decreasing to spread on the rocks pebbles and sand from the bottom of the bag, which insinuate themselves between stones. He then said if I had started with the sand I could not have put everything in the mud, hence the importance of putting first things essential in his life ...