Blueprints For Sandrail

What does that mean: LOVE?

This is complicated qua ca ... or AC is simplified, it depends!
Love, everybody thinks they know what it is, but do you really?

I distinguish the people he is "easy" to love and those whom he is more "difficult" to love:

Those he is "easy" to love:

• Our kids: we consider it natural to love our children but we really love them when we yield to their whims (or worse by weakness, for fear of their reaction or a " psychological trauma ") we let them do everything, including us disrespect or disrespectful to others (children, adults ...), we let them drenched young brain images more or less sordid watching TV for hours ...? LOVE our children is give them the limits they need is to think about their interest before thinking about our (when you agree to buy a cake or candy superfluous to the supermarket, do you think the interest of your child, who will not fail you call another the next time and think that in life, everything can be easily-which is sure to cause serious setbacks later- or you give in to it leaves you quiet?). Where appropriate, not only do you not play your role as a parent, who must learn that we can have everything and you let bullied.



• Our friends: we chose them because we have some affinity. But we behave really friends with them? Are we there when they need us? They give us good advice and we pride ourselves reflected or only their egos when we compliment? we respect their differences, or do we spend our time criticizing them? LOVE our friends is to accept their differences, do not try and help them when need us



• Our spouse : we also selected ... but when you live with someone, we share the good and we discover the worst ... if we fix our attention on this last point, then things may go wrong. LOVE spouse's daily BUILD union in its innovative thinking to please him, thinking of the couple's interest before thinking about yourself ...

People it is less easy to love:

We know a lot and come across new ones every day. About them, I would say they are the product of various factors (genetics, education, culture ...) it must tolerate and respect . If we find an inner peace each morning is that we approach each equipped with this inner peace, then judgments, intolerance, annoyances fade: we are a channel of love that we flood the person, and we don ' expect nothing from her, so nothing irritates us in it. She thinks we hurt, we think: it is much more unhappy than me wanting to do harm; In each we see the small flame of love that we all carry.